Let me start by saying, NO nobody died! Even though it would probably be an easier situation if they had. Death is final for those left behind, this however is very different! A friend is someone that always brings you up (or at least tries) they don't stab you in the back, they get excited with you and always want the best for you! They don't lie to you or try to make you feel stupid to impress someone else and they are ALWAYS there for you! So what do you do when someone that used to be your friend has become 100% opposite from all of those things? I've tried so many times to ignore the stupid things that have been said or done but its to the point where being friends with this person is not really worth my time anymore, which is really sad to me! The hard part is what to do... I refuse to lower my standards of friendship to act the same way as this person, don't get me wrong, I've thought of all the cold hearted bitchy things I could do to maybe 'open thier eyes' but thats not reall who I am, so.. Do I erase this person from my life and get rid of any and all of the pictures and memories or do I just move on and keep the image that we are still friends? I guess I'll just try to do the mature thing... whatever that is.
Thanks Megan! I don't think I even have the heart to completely erase them from my life but... lol I did think about it! Its so weird when you meet someone you think you'll be friends with forever and then with in a couple of years they flip a 180 and the friendship is gone... uh I'm totally calling you this week! I need to bring Jeff's birthday gift over anyways!
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